The most common question that crosses my desktop is, "How do I decide what to do?" Common sense would say, "you can't move forward when you don't have clarity in your direction." Are your choices are getting in the way? Are you focusing on your options or are you paying more attention the consequences? That can be dark and scary. The secret is to realize that you are out of your comfort and feeling naked. The consequences of your choices are not always evil. The grass is usually greener on the other side. When you on the "green" side. Achieving clarity gets much easier.