Take this from someone who knows a thing or two about heartbreak. It is never about not having the other person. Ah-nee, you survived well enough before Lim Jukyung, didn’t you? What’s to say you won’t survive after her too? Heartbreak isn’t about not getting your love. Its about pride. You put yourself out there, but she decided she didn’t want what you had to offer. That’s why you’re hurting.”