Nell Frizzell

Becoming a parent is the only decision that comes with a biological deadline, the only one that cannot be reversed: it is therefore the one decision that throws all others into such sharp focus.

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Throughout my twenties and into my thirties, I tried desperately to appear casual and carefree

You can get a new job

I silenced myself, because I thought it made me more attractive.

we have placed the burden of whether to try for a baby almost entirely at women’s feet.

once you’re a parent, you’re a parent for life

would render me single forever.

By adjusting women’s bodies with contraception and allowing men to live as eternal teenagers

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