Permission Please?
Consider all the wonderful things your dog experiences in an average day. She is given food and treats, is taken for walks, gets to chase a ball, and receives attention and affection. Does she have to earn those things, or does she get them all for free? A basic tenet of good leadership is that your dog must earn the things she values. If your dog has even the most basic of obedience skills—sit—Permission Please is easy to apply.
Take a moment to jot down all the things your dog finds valuable; they should be incorporated into your Permission Please program. For example, ask your dog to sit before you put down her food bowl, before a ball is thrown, and before you pet her. If she does not comply after one request, say, “Oh, well!” The food disappears; the ball disappears; she does not get petted. Your dog will soon learn that refusing to cooperate has a consequence. When you try again a short time later, chances are your dog will comply immediately.