The Yoga of Relationships

Realists know the secret to genuine happiness is being grateful and happy right now with whatever we have. It is effortless joy—joy without a cause.

Waiting for happiness in the future is impossible.

When love exists,

Communication of the highest order occurs spontaneously.

Flowing from heart to heart rather than from head to head,

Communication then becomes communion.

We are so unaware of all the gifts life has already given us.

This is “the gap.” It is a moment in time that creates conflict or peace in our relationships.

Accepting both the dark and light is polarity. Rejecting it, becoming either for or against it, creates duality.

What you cannot give to yourself is impossible for someone else to give to you.

If you are happy, it’s not because you have what you want.

It’s because you are what you want.

A relationship based on self-centered desire is bound to fail. The same relationship, when conceived as a commitment to mutual growth and fulfillment, is bound to succeed. A mature relationship is born out of the strength of self-sufficiency rather than from self-seeking demands. Love is the overflow of the self-fulfilled being.

Let go of what is holding you back.

Create space for what is coming.