Change Your Questions, Change Your Life

Change begins with the person who wants the change.

’s important to remember that slipping into Judger is just part of being human, especially when things aren’t going well. In this respect, we’re all recovering Judgers. No doubt about it, our Judger nature can be a bit addictive. We can’t ever get rid of Judger, but we can learn to manage it. Awareness, commitment, and courage — with a dash of humor — that’s what it takes to keep bringing ourselves back to Learner.

Judger is always judgmental. What’s more, Judger has two faces — either we’re being judgmental about ourselves or about other people.”