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she wasn’t about to give me the benefits of being in a relationship with her. She showed me in no uncertain terms that her train wasn’t going to stop moving and wait for me to get on it.

She was only giving me what I was willing to invest.

she made me less of a priority. She showed me that she was fine being casual, but that she was then going to treat things a bit more casually.

Most guys are like kids; when they test the boundaries and see that nothing happens, they feel no need to aggressively assert their independence.

“Okay,” she said, and then playfully added, “I’m not asking you to marry me, you know.”

he’s still going to get all the benefits of being in a relationship without having to actually be in one.

he should be showing increasing amounts of investment by bringing you into his life more and more.

Is he setting aside time for you? Does he make an effort to bring you into his daily life on a regular basis?

Men only appreciate what they’ve earned.