The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course.
This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes.
“Femdom Academy” goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses.
Content
Introduction
Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s
Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style
Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub
Understanding and Living the Femdom Role
The Femdom Mindset
The Malesub Mindset
Theory Section
Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub
Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM
Create Your Own Role
Lesson 3. Prepare the Session
The Location
What Should I Wear?
Lesson 4. Start the Session
Greeting the Mistress
Practical Tips
Practical Examples
A Mistress Needs No Reason
Topping from the Bottom
Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress
Practical Exercise
Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find
The Art of Verbal Eroticism
Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities
The Most Important SM Practices
Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session
The Mechanics of Imagination: “Carrot and Stick”
The Idea of a “Challenge”
The Idea of a “Surprise”
Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session
Lesson 9. Your Equipment
Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session
Saying No
Slave Questionnaire
Golden SM Safety Rules
Covering
Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification
The Orgasms of the Femdom
The Ruined Orgasm
Forced Orgasms
Prostate Milking
Lesson 12: Ending the Session
The Follow-up Conversation
Hygiene
Lesson 13: Personal Development
Goals for Femdoms
The Slave Contract
Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner
Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs
Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms
Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM
Reader comments
“A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses.” — Dominatrix Lisa
“Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner.” — Manuela
“The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice.” — Fluffy
“Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many.” — Mistress Emma
“A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses.” — Dominatrix Lisa
“Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner.” — Manuela
“Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many.” — Mistress Emma