Often we feel frustrated and resentful because we feel like our beloved doesn’t care what we think.
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
Take off those masks and show up authentically as you. Let everything that you are wholeheartedly shine brightly—all of your strengths, quirks, uniqueness, beliefs and fears
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
If there are four people in the room, each person will experience the situation differently based on their past experiences, and this will dictate how they view the situation.
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
When we understand this, we fully realize that the pain, the resentment, the unhappiness and the frustrations arise when we try to control what we have no control over
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
If you are unhappy, it is up to you to make yourself happy.
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
First, start to pay attention to how you think and talk about your relationship
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
If it’s not a hell yes, with no hesitation, then it’s a no
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
Am I doing this because I want to or because I am trying to make someone happy or get a certain response from them?”
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
If we are continually saying yes when we really want to say no, then we will be caught in a vicious cycle
Poul Otto Thimhas quoted4 years ago
If it is because you are trying to make someone else happy, by putting what you want aside, then reconsider