Meditation is based on a simple understanding: Rather than fighting with darkness, which is impossible anyway, switch on the light. Rather than fighting with ourselves, trying to improve ourselves, trying to live up to others’ ideas of who or what we should be, we can start by simply accepting ourselves as we are now.
Osho often reminds us that if existence has invited us to be here, who else’s permission do we need to accept ourselves as we are? Once we relax into this acceptance, once we stop pretending to be other than who and how we are, once we stop struggling to impress others (who are struggling equally hard to impress us), once we stop trying to defend ourselves, justify ourselves.… Once we stop trying to hide our wounds, even from ourselves, but rather open them to the air and the light, the healing happens on its own.