The first step means that new ideas and behaviour begin to spread memetically, from making tools and pots, to dancing, singing and speech. The second step means that the people who are best able to pick up the new memes have more offspring who are also able to pick up the new memes. So everyone tends more and more to imitate the successful memes. The third step means that mate choice is also driven by the memes that are prevalent at the time. The consequence of these processes operating together is that the direction taken by memetic evolution affects the direction taken by the genes. This is memetic driving.