What You Should Teach: Before the ride, put your helmet on, then help your child. Tell her she looks very grown-up, just like Mommy and Daddy. Resist the urge to extend the ride your first few times out. You want to familiarize your child with the process, not make him feel like he’s being toted around. Ask him where he wants to go, and point out trees, birds and squirrels. On your first longer ride together, 90 minutes max (with stops), go to a cool destination—the park, the zoo, an ice cream stand. Build the connection that bikes take you to places that are fun