Bringing Up Children

The child needs your love, not your help. The child needs nourishment, support, but not your help.

Every way of helping a child is wrong. The very idea of helping is not right.

Forty-two is the right time for a person to be able to know exactly who he is.

The person, the woman or the man who has brought you to such a climax, needs some gratitude – afterplay is your gratitude.

You are bringing a life into existence; all the care in the world will be needed.

Don’t let him be affected by your fears. You may have fears, but keep them to yourself. Don’t unload those fears on the child because that will be interfering.

Don’t make him afraid of darkness, don’t make him afraid of failure, don’t make him afraid of the unknown. Give him support. When he is going on an unknown journey, send him on with all your support, with all your love, with all your blessings.

Protect the child from every kind of influence, so that he can remain himself – and it is only a question of seven years because then the first cycle will be complete. By seven years of age he will be well-grounded, centered, and strong enough.

Protect the child from others who can influence him; protect him at least up to the age of seven.

If you have a child, protect the child from yourself.